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Bornunder Dutchess
11-06-2009, 12:33 AM
Hi All...

Little request. My big brother is away in Afghanistan fighting at the moment, and will be remaing there over xmas, whatever your opinion of the war be it for or against, he lost a few friends this week out there, and its the human toll that matters not the politics behind it.

He's out there because his priority is to protect everyone he loves and nothing more.

The people out there are just doing their job, like the rest of us...whatever your opinion you have to respect that.

Anyway...Id like to just tell you a bit about him, because if anyone has interesting "BRM" tales to tell...its him, despite not being an owner himself.

He and I have had many BRM based adventures whilst I was learning to drive, he was one of the few people brave enough to help me practice driving when I first brought Roxanne, he was sitting calmly in the passenger seat when I ploughed us both into a petrol pump and I got a bollocking from the staff at the station, but diddn't go mental because he understood we all have to learn and his patience is endless when it comes to his little sister.

He also sat in grim silence the first time I ever negotiated the twelve exit box junction that is Piccadilly Circus at pub kicking out time on a friday, and diddn't show any nerves or temper when I flew sideways accross the centre of it narrowly missing a black cab and a man with a sandwich board which claimed "Jesus loves you"....make of that what you will.

When I accidentally ended up on the M1 on a provisional licence (bad) his advice was "your L plates have blown off anyway, take the next exit and I'll bollock you then because if I give you a 70mph bollocking I'll have to do it from the comfort of that wall over there"..and when I switched my headlights up in a tunnel pissing EVERYONE else off, and complained how hard it was to see, without a word he leant over pushed my sunglasses up off my eyes and sat back in his seat.

Most importantly he and risked licence and job to drive us 134 miles in 1 hr 50minutes in a car with an empty fuel tank so I could make my Grannys funeral recently, then despite the speed camera flash and inevitable fine/points which may follow he never complained once, and instead joked with me about my cars innapropriate green and orange funeral attire to stop me from crying when me, him and the BRM took our place in the funeral procession.

Theres a million more stories about our adventures, and not all of them are nice. He once hit me over the head with a big book and knocked me out cold when we were younger! the meany! but belive me when I say I can't think of anyone in the world I'd rather have as a big brother,hes looked after me for years and only asked the occassional pint in return. Imagine the magnitude of his job. Having me as his younger sister AND touring warzones!

Most importantly, with one thing and another, he's had a tough week. If anyone here could just give him a few encouraging words, and let him know we are thinking of him and his less lucky frineds who wont be coming home this time around, I know it would really cheer him up.

Thanks Guys.

K xxxx

Bornunder Dutchess
11-06-2009, 07:45 AM
Although he does smell...a bit.

BRMark
11-06-2009, 09:24 AM
When is he home next? I've a very very large book I'd like to lend him! :devil:


Seriously though he sounds like a good man and I'm sure he'd hate to have a different sister, one who was less mental! :D

:beer2:

boogie
11-06-2009, 09:31 AM
I was just wondering what could be worse being where he is now or being in the car with you, I know it would be a close call. Just let him know that we do appreciate the things he does for the safety of the world. Take care and look after yourself and your friends, you never know when you need them and they need you.

m8typ
11-06-2009, 04:21 PM
Poor sod, not only has he got the danger of War, when he returns, he has to get in a car with you!!
But seriously, I lost a close friend in the Marines and respect everything they do, so much so that I even bought the X Factor Help for Heroes song!

garythesnail
11-06-2009, 05:22 PM
Sod the politicians - troops on the ground didn't choose to go to go out there and it beggar's belief how some people gather when troops come home to give them a hard time - bollocks to that.

These guys are miles from home with a tough job to do and the potential for some b@$t@rd pointing a gun at you (or worse) when you go about your job.

All I've got to say is 'thanks' (I don't think I could do it - not that they'd take me in now - too old and decrepid :)) and pay no attention to the very small minority who get too much attention when they gather to make a big noise about 'how bad soldiers are' because I really do believe that the silent majority are bright enough to know that the boys at the shitty end of the stick are just doing their job and support them.

burrows
11-06-2009, 08:08 PM
My son went in to the Navy just as the Iraq war broke out so I have an inkling as to what you are going through, I know the Navy have an easier time of it but it's still worrying and my thoughts are with you and your family. You, no doubt prepared him for terrors if he was a passenger with you at the wheel!!

mafcaw
11-06-2009, 08:41 PM
I live in Catterick Village, which has Marne Barracks at its far end & is 3miles from Catterick Garrison, the UK's largest army and the biggest in Europe. Your brother probably started his basic army training here.

As a result I get to meet alot of soldiers and never fail to be impressed by their professionalism, I wish your brother and all his comrades in arms the best of luck whilst over there and hope for all their safe returns.

brmatty
11-06-2009, 09:26 PM
i second all said above , its a seriously tough job and i wouldnt personally want to do it , i take my hat of to them....on a lighter note the "large book" incident seems to explain alot...lol...

Bornunder Dutchess
11-08-2009, 04:31 PM
They should bring in driving with me as part of the training I rekon...last thing you do before the passing out parade.

We are all worried but especially with recent events, but I appreciate all your messages...

And so will he :)


Im not so sure about the show of support for hitting me with a book though!

garythesnail
11-08-2009, 06:10 PM
They should bring in driving with me as part of the training I rekon...last thing you do before the passing out parade.


May be best to leave this very demanding , stressful final test for special forces only - SAS and the like:chair:

Bornunder Dutchess
11-08-2009, 08:31 PM
;) Love it...lets pitch it too the forces.